Lesson hard learnt

Beware the man that falls in love with you by betraying someone else. Chances are, he’ll do it again, when you’re someone else.
Beware the man that betrays you often in your dreams. Chances are, your intuition is more powerful than you know.
Beware the man that tells you too often you’re the only one. Chances are, he’s trying to convince himself of something.
Beware the man who believes he is always right. Chances are, he will be unable to listen to anyone, including you.
Beware the man that calls you a good girl. Chances are, he inwardly wants a bad one.
Beware the man that wants to cast you as his slut, his whore. Chances are, when you become his madonna, he will adoringly leave you.
Beware the man that has no appreciation for his mother. Chances are, in the fullness of time, he will cast you off.
Beware the man that values reason over compassion. Chances are, when his cold reasoning knocks you down, he will fail to help you back to your feet.


About Lisa

I live in South Africa with my husband and two small children, doing things, thinking about things and sometimes writing about them.
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3 Responses to Lesson hard learnt

  1. Anonymous says:

    I’ve never gotten to meet you, Lisa, but being well-versed in the psychopathology of the man you were so unfortunate as to love, I feel a surging empathy for you, and am so, so, sorry, from the bottom of my heart.

    You are in my thoughts. I wish you and your sweet little boy all the best.

    Don’t ever let yourself doubt that you deserved so much better than this. In the words of J.R.R. Tolkien, “Faithless is he who says farewell when the road darkens.”

    I feel confident someday in the not-so-distant future you will find the man you so richly deserve.

  2. Anonymous says:

    Nik is a complete arrogant, fukwit who will in time rue what he has done.

    How you could do such a thing to a lovely woman who gave up much to be with you, is beyond belief.

    Your preaching in your blogs is now complete trash — you are worse in spin and life than the religious mavens and politicians you despise. Maybe its because you despise yourself.

    If you’re reading this, Nik mate, seek professional help. Better still, go lie in the gutter where u so deservedly belong. Mind you, the rats would object.

  3. Rae says:


    I’ve just clicked on your blog to see the newest pics of Kolya since Nik has not updated his own blog. I’m so saddened to hear that something terrible has happened between you two. You seem like a wonderful mother and I wish you the best, from one ex to another. :/

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